Twenty Kenyan Baby Dyke Worries | An Update

Many crushes and orgasms later, I am back to find out if I may have learned new things about some of the things that were worrying me a few months ago.

Let’s see.


  1. Am I doing it right? I still have no clue. But if the whimpers and adulation are anything to by, I am not doing very badly. 
  2. Can other lesbians know or tell that I am a lesbian? No, they cannot. Maybe I need dreadlocks and more piercings. 
  3. Am I being gay enough? Apparently, I am being too gay. So that’s an entirely different thing to worry about altogether.
  4. Am I being too gay? Yes. Yes I am. 
  5. What if I never find a woman who I like who will like me back? Impossible. I have since met women who I liked, who liked me back if not more.
  6. Do other lesbians that are not my exes or friends of my exes or exes of my exes exist? Surprisingly, they do. Pro tip, they might be from a different country. 
  7. Is there a secret lesbian location that I don’t know about? I still haven’t figured it out. But I am not really in a leaving the house mood, so if there were, I probably wouldn’t go anyway.
  8. Will I like having a strap inside me? Still to be determined.
  9. What will I do if I fall for a touch me not? Love them, as they are, in all their touch me notness. I read a touching letter from a recovering touch me not, which put my mind at ease on the subject. 
  10. Should I switch up my style to increase my visibility? No.
  11. Am I doing Tinder wrong? Gave up Tinder altogether. But I might be making a return. The weather lately has been a little numbing.
  12. Will there ever be a Grindr for girls here? Not yet.
  13. Will Kenya ever decriminalize ‘carnal acts against the order of nature’ Not yet. But we did get a win! Follow @NGLHRC for more details. 
  14. Do I always have to fall in love in 3 days, 2 hours and 10 minutes? Apparently, I do. And I never learn. Setting new records for falling in love. 
  15. What would happen if I was to take it slow? We still don’t know because I still am unable to take it slow. 
  16. Do I always have to DIY dental dams? Cling film is your friend.
  17. Will I ever voice out my fantasies? Maybe, one day in the future, with the right person. 
  18. Will I ever meet someone who excites me as much as Young MA? Yes. I will.
  19. Will I ever kiss my girlfriend goodbye in public? I should hope so.
  20. Has anyone ever faked it with me? I should hope not.

Have I picked up new worries along the way, yes. But that is a blog post for another day. You? What are your worries? Baby dyke or otherwise.


4 Comments Add yours

  1. ms the optom says:

    Baby dyke I’d love to meet you someday.

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  2. the B-KO says:

    I’ve been looking for this kind of kenyan blog for a while now. So happy you’re doing it. Proud of you Baby dyke! Help us figure this out 😉

    Liked by 1 person

  3. the B-KO says:

    Proud of you Baby dyke. You speak to my heart.

    Liked by 1 person

  4. Anonymous says:

    Young MA the win.
    I relate to everything there. Scar and exciting at the same time


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